Monthly Archives: July 2011

I’m Raising Willy Wonka

“Mom, you’re breaking my traction rod!” my 5 year-old son said to me as we walked (okay, more like I pulled him) through the crowd of people leaving a fireworks event on July 4th.

The folks nearby chuckled, but I’m sure they had no idea what he was talking about.  But I did.

You see, my son is a train.

He loves trains.  He plays with trains.  He can tell you about the different types of trains that exist today as well as those from yesteryear, and he watches any movie or TV show that involves trains.  He can also do various whistles and toots from different kinds of trains.  He wants to be a train driver when he grows up, and in his imagination he IS a train.

He never walks or runs anywhere.  He puffs and chuffs.  In our house, when it’s bath time, that’s known as “going to the Steamworks,” where my kid gets a new, shiny coat of paint.  His arms are traction rods.  His feet are wheels.  His legs are pistons.  His nose is a funnel.  His mouth is his whistle, and you don’t really want to know what his firebox is, but suffice it to say, when it gets “stuffed up,” that’s not a good thing.

I have been told before that I ought to be concerned about his train obsession.  Someone once told me that it isn’t normal for him to imagine that he is a train so much of the time.

But I disagree.  His imagination is part of who he is, and I won’t take that away.

I do believe that there is a time and a place for everything, and although he lives in his imagination 90% of the time, he does know how to function very well in normal society, so I encourage his imaginative play.

He comes by that imagination honestly.  I have always had a vivid imagination, and I believe God gave it to me on purpose so that I might be able to use it for writing.

Imagination sparks curiosity, creativity and cleverness, and I want to inspire my son toward those qualities, among others, and not deter him from them. 

In the movie ‘Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory,’ Willy Wonka addressed the beauty of the imagination in the song, Pure Imagination.

There is no
Life I know
To compare with
Pure imagination
Living there
You’ll be free
If you truly wish to be

If you want to view paradise
Simply look around and view it
Anything you want to, do it
Want to change the world?
There’s nothing
To it

Our imagination is a gift from God, allowing us to believe that anything is possible.  Add Faith to that imagination, and it is possible to truly change the world.

And at my son’s next t-ball game, when he’s “chuffing” around the bases and tooting his whistle, you’ll see me there in the stands.  I’ll be the one cheering for my favorite little engine.

Share with me:  What do you think about encouraging kids with imaginative behavior?  Can imaginative play be a negative thing?  What is your child’s favorite imaginary game?  Did you have an imaginary friend or game when you were a kid?

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Wannabe Writer-itis

I’m an author.  I create stories that are inspired, gifted, and brilliant, with characters who overcome challenges that no normal human could face, yet they do it with such grace and dignity that they will change the lives of all those who dare to read and process the amazing-ness that is my novel.

But you can’t read my novel because I haven’t written it yet, actually.

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I haven’t queried to an agent or editor.

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I have never read anything on the process of crafting a well-written story, because I don’t need to.  I’m good like that.

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I don’t care for critical comments about my writing.  My stories are perfect the way they are.

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It doesn’t matter what my query letter says, my novel is what’s important.

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I’ll just self-publish so that I can avoid anyone who might want me to make changes to my work.


I am a wannabe writer.

I suffered from wannabe writer-itis myself.  Even though I had actually written more than one complete novel, even though I had taken the leap to establish representation, even though I had let several people read my novels and give me feedback, I was severely lacking in one area.

I had never read anything on the writing process.

I thought my stories were great.  I thought they were inspired.  Especially the first novel I ever wrote– a historical romance set in 1820s England.  Oh, how I love those characters I created!

But then I started getting feedback on it from people in the writing biz.  And I’m thinking, “no…no…how can they not like it?  It’s fabulous!”

My critique partner (God brought her to me specifically to help me grow in my writing and to be like, the soul-sister I never knew I had) gave me some feedback.  And it was horrible, rip my heart out, this-story-needs-tons-of-work kind of feedback.  But it was the best thing that ever happened to me.

And so, out of humility, because I know I need to constantly be growing and learning if I’m going to succeed as a writer, I picked up several books at the library on the writing process and ordered a few more from Amazon.

Keep in mind that I am a history major with a master’s in education, and the only writing course I took in college was my freshman year.  My professor had his own theories on writing and had written his own textbook, which of course, he required each one of us to purchase.  The only thing I remember from his course is that he would walk around the room and throw around the phrase, “damn zippy.”  Yeah, I didn’t glean a whole lot of info from him.

So with pen in hand, I started reading through the library books and taking notes.  (I felt like I was in college again, but I love being a nerd like that.)

At first I was excited.  “Yes! Yes!” I’m thinking as I was reading.  I realized that I am doing many things correctly as a writer!  Then I got to the “Things You Should Never Do” in a romance, and my stomach dropped as I read the list.  In my beloved first manuscript, I had made Every.Single.One. of the mistakes an author should never make.  From the characters to the plot, I realized that my first manuscript, the one that inspired me to become a writer in the first place, was complete drivel.

For two seconds I considered throwing in the towel.  I almost succombed to the worst of the wannabe writer-itis symptoms– discouragement.

And then I paused and asked myself a question.  Do I want to be a writer?

And the answer is YES. 

If you are suffering from wannabe writer-itis, here are a few tips for curing your condition:

1.  Own it.  As my wise and encouraging friend Colleen once said, “you aren’t trying to be a writer, you are a writer.”  Now be one.

2. Read books on the writing process.  Yes, God can inspire our words and ideas, but we need to learn how to convey those words and ideas correctly into a sell-able novel that will reach others.  Learning the craft will help you take the inspired words and ideas and turn them into a book that makes sense and conveys the messages and themes you intend for it to convey. Our brilliant and inspired stories don’t do any good if no one will ever have a chance to read them.

3. Join a writer’s organization.  Whether it’s a local group or a national one, being involved in a writer’s organization will put you in contact with people who know the world of writing and publishing.  It will help you network and make connections that could eventually lead to publishing, if that’s your desire.

4. READ.  Read books by authors in the genre in which you would like to write.  The more you read, the more familiar you’ll be come with the genre.  Don’t attempt to write in a genre you’ve never read.

5. Attend a writer’s conference.  I will be attending my first one this year, ACFW.  (American Christian Fiction Writers).  The wealth of information that will be offered in the classes is overwhelming.

6. Write.  Complete a manuscript.  I put this one last on purpose, because it’s actually the last thing you should do.  Most people think that this is the first thing that a writer should do, but if you want to write something that’s not “drivel,” I suggest you work on the other steps first. 

And now, if you’ll excuse me, I need to do some serious rewrites on one of my manuscripts.  I hope that when I’m finished it will no longer resemble “drivel,” and instead will be a readable piece of work that will inspire others.

Share with me:  What do you think is the most difficult part of the writing biz?

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What Freedom Is All About

Our church loves to do up July 4th the right way.  We celebrate not only America’s birthday, but the grace and true freedom that God has so lovingly given each one of us through Jesus Christ.

Yesterday we sang “This Is How It Feels to Be Free.”

The only thing I could think throughout the entire song was how amazingly and overwhelmingly grateful I am that Jesus Christ set me free from the bondage of sin. 

It literally brought tears to my eyes and got me all choked up, and that’s never a good thing when I’m supposed to be singing because then I get this little squeaky-thing going on with my voice.  Not pretty. 

The person who delivered our sermon was a a friend of mine from high school who is now a prosecuting attorney in town.  As I listened to his inspired words, I tried not to think about the fact that he and I were in a production of Charlotte’s Web together when I was in the 10th grade (I was Charlotte, he was Templeton) and instead listen to what he was saying.  He spoke a lot about explaining the Declaration of Independence and what it means to us, and I’d like to add my own thoughts to what he was saying.

(I’m about to put on my US History Teacher hat and my Disciple of Christ hat.)

The Declaration of Independence contains a beautiful line that is important not only to our freedoms as Americans, but to our freedoms as human beings in all nations of the world.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. 

As human beings, we are granted unalienable rights that cannot be taken away.  These rights come not from man or government, but from God.

Life– 
God granted each one of us life.  In genesis 2, he created Man.  The Bible says that he created each one of us and knows the number of hairs on our head.

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”  Jeremiah 1:5

Liberty- 
God has given us the ultimate gift of liberty through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, his son.  Probably the most well-known Bible verse lays is out clearly for us.  When we believe that Jesus Christ died for our sins and rose again, we are granted the freedom of eternal life with God himself.

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.  John 3:16


The Pursuit of Happiness- 
God does not automatically give us “happiness” when we become followers and disciples of Christ, but he gives us opportunities to know Him more, which will instill in us a joy that supersedes any man-made happiness we could ever achieve.

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”  Jeremiah 29:11

When we understand these basic rights, granted to us through God’s unbelievable mercy, then we are truly free.

Happy Independence Day, America!

Share With Me: What are your favorite July 4th traditions?

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