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Building a Family the Non-Traditional Way– A Guest Post from Katie Ganshert

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I don’t remember the exact details of how Jennifer and I met, I just know that writing brought us together. We started emailing back and forth and soon discovered we had many things in common.

One being that we both struggled with secondary infertility.

Like Jenny, I was able to get pregnant with our son, who is now four, without any problems. My husband and I took for granted that we’d be able to have another. But after a year and a half of trying, we started to realize that maybe it wasn’t going to happen.

With every negative pregnancy test and every day Brogan got older and every time well-intentioned people asked, “When are you going to give that son or yours a little brother or sister?”, the vision I had for our family began to fade. I won’t lie. The fading was painful.

At the time, I didn’t understand why we couldn’t conceive. There was no medical explanation for it. On paper, we should have been able to get pregnant. So why wasn’t it happening?

Here’s what I’m learning about God:

He doesn’t just close a door to close a door. He closes a door in order to open another.

For us, that other was adoption.

It wasn’t a coincidence that as we struggled with infertility, God kept bringing people into our lives who were adopting. It wasn’t a coincidence that eight years before, for no apparent reason, I wanted to move to Africa so I could love on kids in orphanages all day. It wasn’t a coincidence that God gave me a husband with a tender, tender heart for the helpless and the hurting.

He’d been preparing me to say Yes long before I ever knew adoption was on the table.

So we did. We said yes.

I’ve been paper pregnant for 17 months now, with at least six months left to go.

It hasn’t been easy. In fact, it’s been incredibly hard.

But I’ve experienced first-hand how very much God meets us in the hard. He’s present through it and He has a purpose for it.

He has used the agonizing waits and the endless paperwork and the strain of finances and the ups and downs that inevitably come with adoption to bring forth a fierce, uncompromising love for a child who’s not even mine yet.

He has used this crazy journey to infuse an emotional intimacy in my marriage that wouldn’t have been there otherwise.

He has used the heartache and the unknown to draw me closer and closer to Him.

And I can honestly say, no matter how hard it’s been, that there is no other path I’d rather be on than this one.

If you’d like to join us on this path, you can! We are in the process of raising the rest of the funds we need to bring this precious child home from DR Congo. All that’s involved is a puzzle, a sharpie, and 500 willing hearts. 385 have stepped up so far. Might you considering being one of the 115 remaining? For $10, you can sponsor a piece of our little one’s adoption puzzle (see photo above!!). We will write your name on the back and when the puzzle is complete, we will frame it in double-sided glass and hang it in our child’s room—a beautiful testimony to just how loved and wanted this little one was.

We have 115 pieces left to go! All donations are tax-deductible.

Please shoot me an email (ganshertadoption@gmail.com) if you’d like to donate!

Let’s Talk: What unexpected doors has God opened in your life?

headshot-1-e1332716813182Katie Ganshert was born and raised in the Midwest, where she writes stories about finding faith and falling in love. When she’s not busy plotting her next novel, she enjoys watching movies with her husband, playing make-believe with her wild-child of a son, and chatting with her girlfriends over bagels. She and her husband are in the process of adopting from the Congo. You can find her online at her blog and on Facebook.


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Do You Know Katie Ganshert? And A Chance to Win!!

Ladies and gents, let me introduce to you my St End, Katie Ganshert. (I’m Be Fri, she’s St End– get it?)

I.love.this.gal. That being said, I feel like everyone needs to know her and love her as much as I do, and one easy way you can do that is by celebrating the release of her debut novel, Wildflowers from Winter.

Katie and I met via Twitter, believe it or not. After discovering that we’re pretty sure we were separated at birth somehow, we’ve been devoted long-distance friends. We were finally able to meet face to face at the ACFW conference last year, and decided that it’s probably a good thing God has us living far apart, because if we lived in the same town, neither one of us would ever accomplish anything because we’d be getting into too much trouble together. Plus her flat, midwestern accent would never work down South, and I’d sound like I hick if I moved up her way. 🙂

Long-distance or not, she’s one of my favorite people on the planet.

Me and KG at the ACFW Conference

Here’s a little info on my friend:

Katie Ganshert was born and raised in the Midwest, where she writes stories about finding faith and falling in love. When she’s not busy plotting her next novel, she enjoys watching movies with her husband, playing make-believe with her wild-child of a son, and chatting with her girlfriends over bagels. She and her husband are in the process of adopting from the Congo. You can find her online at her blog and on Facebook.

And now for the reason we’re celebrating–Katie’s novel!

Wildflowers from Winter

A young architect at a prestigious Chicago firm, Bethany Quinn has built a life far removed from her trailer park teen years. Until an interruption from her estranged mother reveals that tragedy has struck in her hometown and a reluctant Bethany is called back to rural Iowa. Determined to pay her respects while avoiding any emotional entanglements, she vows not to stay long. But the unexpected inheritance of farmland and a startling turn of events in Chicago forces Bethany to come up with a new plan.

Handsome farmhand Evan Price has taken care of the Quinn farm for years. So when Bethany is left the land, he must fight her decisions to realize his dreams. But even as he disagrees with Bethany’s vision, Evan feels drawn to her and the pain she keeps so carefully locked away.

For Bethany, making peace with her past and the God of her childhood doesn’t seem like the path to freedom. Is letting go the only way to new life, love and a peace she’s not even sure exists?

Okay, I know you want to read it. And you should. It’s a beautiful story eloquently written. It made me laugh, it made me cry. It’s that good.

I thought you might like to know a little more about its author, so I asked her a few questions. Perhaps you think you know Mrs. Ganshert? These aren’t the same old, same old interview questions, so check out her unique responses. 😉

About the book:

1. What was your inspiration for this story?

Late one night, while nursing my son, the voice of this 12 year old girl came into my head and would not leave. So I sat down and wrote the prologue without having any sort of story to go with it. At the same time, I was thinking a lot about my best friend growing up. We lost touch in college. And I found myself wondering what, if anything, would bring us back together again. I knew I wanted to tell a story that explored the bonds of friendship, so I squished that idea together with my prologue and voila!

2. What was the first scene you developed in your mind?

Interestingly enough, the first scene I developed in my mind (besides the prologue….which isn’t really a scene), is one that isn’t in the book. I envisioned this scene where this woman was in Walgreens, perusing the sympathy cards, not at all sure which one to get for a woman who used to be her best friend but is no longer in her life.

3. Without giving anything away, what is your personal favorite scene in the story?

Oooo! That’s such a fun question! Probably the scene where Bethany and Evan are sitting by the creek at night in the snow, and they have this really touching conversation. It’s sort of their first civil moment and it was very fun to write.

4. Which of the characters you created is most like you?

Definitely Robin. Faith isn’t generally a struggle for me like it is for Bethany. I gave my life easily to Christ, just like Robin did so many years ago. It’s hard to see in the book, since Robin is experiencing so much grief, but when she’s not grieving, Robin is an outgoing, warm personality, whereas Bethany is much more reserved.

5. If you could release a soundtrack for the book, what songs would be on it? (Give me at least 5 or so).

Five songs! That’s hard. Let’s see. Beautiful Things, by Gungor. Blessings, by Laura Story. Oh sheesh….I’m totally stumped after two. How’s that for awesome?

About you:

1. What’s your favorite romance book, movie, and TV show?

Favorite romantic book is definitely Mark of the Lion [Francine Rivers] (the first two in the trilogy). Marcus and Hadassah’s relationship made me all swoony. It was perfect. I reread those two books at least once a year. But recently I read Anna and the French Kiss by Stephanie Perkins and holy buckets! It was amazing. Totally in the running. Movie would have to be Pride and Prejudice (it’s hard to choose between the Colin Firth version and the Keira Knightly version).  And show…do you even have to ask? Vampire Diaries! Although I did love me some Pam and Jim, season 2 style, from The Office.

2. If you could only listen to three artists/bands for the rest of your life, who would you choose?

I’d be set! Can you tell that I totally am not a music-girl. I love listening to music on the radio. Love, love, love. But I so don’t know the name of the singers. Half the time I don’t know the names of the songs either. Hmmm…I’d probably pick Adele, Hillsong United, and Phil Wickham, maybe. He has a few songs I’d hate to never be able to listen to again.

3. What’s your favorite meal?

Fried pickles for an appetizer, this buffalo chicken wrap I order every time we go to The River House in Moline, followed by some Coldstone Creamery. Yum, yum, yum.

4. What’s the most romantic date your hubby has ever taken you on? OR What is the most romantic thing your hubby does for you?

The most romantic thing he does for me is rub my back when I’m writing. Not all the time. But enough. Especially when I’m stressed out. I get this perpetual knot in my left shoulder and he’s great at rubbing it out. He also does the laundry and the cleaning and the grocery shopping when I’m a deadline. How much more romantic can you get?

   5. What is your earliest memory?

Earliest memory would probably be sitting on the fence at my daycare provider’s house. I had to have been four or so. I was swinging my legs, watching my older brother play two hand touch football, when I fell off the fence and split open my head. I remember this because I had a crush on my day care provider’s son at the time and he scooped me up and carried me inside. I had to get five stitches.

  6. If you could live anywhere in the world for a 5 year stint (not permanent), where would you choose & why?

Ireland. Just to listen to those amazing accents for five years. I don’t even like beer, yet I would choose Ireland.

  7. When money is no object (I said when, not if), what’s the first thing you’ll do for your spouse?

Ha! Okay, I’ll go with it….I shall buy a private jet and fly him around the world, feeding him lots and lots of delicious cuisine, pouring him all kinds of wonderful imported beer (unlike me, my hubby really likes beer).

    8. What one skill or talent do you wish you had and why?

I wish I could sing. Like, really really sing. I wish I could open my mouth and belt it like Aretha. I’ve always thought that would be amazing. Sadly, I am incredibly tone deaf.

    9. If you could design your own house from scratch, what would be the three most important things you’d include?

Lots and lots of storage space. A mud room that has a door I can close. And an office with an inspiring view.

10. If your life had a theme song right now, what would it be and why?

Oh, I totally know this one! Insane in the Membrane by Cypress Hill. Hello nineties! Why? Because life is so insanely busy right now that I often feel insane in the membrane.

Lol! Insane In The Membrane? Now you have at least a little bit of an understanding of why I love this chick. We share an affinity for The Vampire Diaries, Adele, and fried pickles, among other things. (Seriously, Katie, are you sure you aren’t Southern?)

Are you ready to read her book, Wildflowers from Winter? Awesome!! You can get your own copy by clicking on the link or get one for free because we’re giving away a copy to ONE lucky winner!!!

You can enter to win a copy of Wildflower from Winter by leaving a comment below. One commenter will be chosen at random to win a copy of Katie’s book. The contest is open through Tuesday May 15, 2012, and the winner will be announced via my post on Wednesday, May 16th, 2012.

Good luck!


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